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你读了...吗 ”电影明星和我”了吗?的链接,如果你没有听过about it online – the story of a young woman who interned a few years ago on a musical starring a big name actor who received great acclaim for his performance. What happened between them isn’t criminal but it is manipulative and if you’ve been in a similar situation – several layers of power imbalance, an age difference, in an ecosystem that is set up so that an entire community serves one person in the spotlight, no matter what lines are blurred – her experience will feel painfully familiar, and real.

不难弄清楚她指的是谁，他所在的音乐剧，他的家人和作家本人。她没有命名他，但她的名字命名为自己。she’s a playwright and an actor, she works in theatre, so all of this can be tracked back to her, and given that she’s clearly still in the early stages of her career, the fact that she’s sharing what happened will come at great personal risk.

因为她不仅将他召集出去，所以她还描述了启用的基础设施，因为一段时间以来，他对她的着迷是对制作的好处。如果他对她的关注正在帮助他交付，以确保音乐剧将取得成功，那么他的思维游戏是合理的。导演的导演鼓励她继续演奏她，她说她可以感觉不适，但……表演必须继续。这是为他建立最理想的环境，这不仅仅是可以逐项列出和量化的技术，有形资源，例如培训，设备和工具；它还包括以实际人形式出现的干扰，无论情况多么混乱和复杂。她支持这位星星的工作不仅仅是让他从更衣室到排练，还确保他知道自己的日程安排，与经理和其他人协调。它还涉及狂热者和调情，接受他的注意力，无论“从他身上表现出色”所必需的一切。每个人都可以在晚上上床睡觉，舒适地睡觉，知道这不一定是非法的。但这也不是完全合适的。正如她写的那样：

“我是导师提供的商品，以使过程更轻松。我仍然没有面对她，因为我很害怕她会嘲笑，我们俩都知道你想要它。她是对的：我的一部分做到了。但是那部分从来没有同意。当他评论我在工作中的出现时，同意就变得不可能。我永远不知道我的真实感受是因为他跨越了对他而没有的界限，我不知道我必须保护的边界。”

这些是关于工作场所骚扰的黑白对话的灰色区域。即使是骚扰这个词也不完全正确，因为再次，我们对骚扰的理解太狭窄，无法弥补细微差别。同样，在纸面上，作者承认自己的书，这里没有任何法律犯规。But that also doesn’t make it right, especially when you consider that her relationship with him in the eyes of her work superiors was always discussed as an asset to the production, to the actual work of it, and not as a personal connection between two people. When a relationship is seen as being advantageous to the mounting of a multi-million dollar musical, it 100% falls under professional conduct. Or misconduct.

现在会发生什么？对他来说，什么都没有。除作家以外，别无选择。She’s likely already being attacked online, by people diminishing her story, by those who will tell her she was old enough to know, that she was glamourised by a beautiful, famous man who didn’t love her back and is just a bitter bitch who wants her revenge. Because too many people still buy into the fallacy that revenge is actually the price and pain of disclosure. The point here isn’t cancellation. But even focusing on whether or not this is about cancellation takes the focus away from the person who should be centered here. Right now, at this moment, there’s another intern, so many interns, being pulled into the same position. And kept there by people who have everything to gain by their exploitation. Who will hold up the boundaries for them?

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